Why do girls get so upset if their guy watches porn?
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Why is this such an epic issue? I see this brought up time and time again on YA.. even my gf had a spaz-attack when she first found out about it
Every girl says “Oh I feel so betrayed, Oh it makes me feel like I’m not good enough”
Men don’t watch porn to spite you!! We watch it to satisfy our brief urges…
Think of it as a refreshing glass of soda to quench your thirst or something on a boiling day
Guys get horny=They need to get off
If woman is unavailable they can either:
1. Go see her
2. W a n k
It’s that simple. We’re not thinking to ourselves “Oh wow this chick is so much better than my girl… oh god she’s nothing compared to her”
We’re just looking at porn as an aid to help us get off
That’s all it is, a means of getting off, lol.. not a way to spite your gf or make her feel inferior sheesh
Why do women love to think the worst of guys? Some compare it to cheating WTF?
It’s a picture! A video! It’s fake! Wow… he’s looking at a vagina, well unless your lacking a vagina (lol), you don’t have anything to worry about, because he knows if he wants to fulfil his fantasies the only way he can is from you..
Which is while he’ll stay with you.. porn is not cheating. There are no 2 parties involved… there’s no mutual discontent
It’s just men satisfying their urges when their girlfriends can’t do it for them.
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because the women cant compete with the porn star.
Well I hate it because its disgusting…
I’m in year 9 and guys in my year watch it on their computers and it grosses me out.
If they really want to watch it, can they please watch it at home when they aren’t around other people who just DON’T WANNA KNOW?!
Okay.. and I guess theres a side to me thats alright with it because yes guys have urges blah blah blah.
I actually agree with you!! I never have and never will have a problem with any partner of mine watching porn!!! Its so fake – busty blondes taking it from all angles from midget italian men!!!! Like to be honest – I cant even see how guys get anything out of it!!!!!
Anyway – I totally agree with you – id prefer my man to be at home watching porn opposed to be out contemplating cheating!!
xx
A girl gets worried because it is such an unrealistic sex act. Fair enough some girls may be like those in the videos, but most girls see it as disgusting because it makes them look like an object. A girl feels more and more pressured to be like those girls to keep guys interested, and if they can’t do that, they feel inadequate and it eventually ruins the relationship.
Why not include her in it? Buy/Hire some softporn and watch it in the bedroom with her. Or, if she’s up to it, make a home movie and watch that instead. That way, she will know that when you watch porn, you are watching her.
Girls get upset because it makes them feel inadequate. Why should you need to look at other girls, even if its just a picture or video? Cant you just think about your girl friend? Its not about how pretty or fit she is, its the fact that it isnt her.
Girls get sexual urges too, but they don’t look at pictures of naked men, we get over it.
If you really need visual stimulation, then why not get your girlfriend to do a photoshoot in some sexy undies or something? But it will have to go both ways, and if you both have copies then she might feel safer.
But learn some self control. If you need to ’stimulate’ your self with pictures, you cant need to get off that badly.
Note: I usually don’t care if my boyfriend does, like someone else said I would rather it then him being out cheating, but I can understand why some girls would get mad.
It doesn’t bother me in fact I try to get my bf to watch it with me but so far I have been unsuccessful
ive got no problem with my bf watching it – as long as we watch it together…. not when im not there…
You wouldn’t like it if we did that!
& most girls think that pornstars are bad people, and we don’t agree with what they do, most of the time we always want guys to be on our side. It makes us feel like our opinions don’t count if you ignore what we say.
You make us feel like we aren’t good enough which might make us do more to please you, but we will end up hurting ourselves.
And would you really want a girl doing stuff to you knowing its just so she doesn’t lose you.
Cause bud, thats NOT love.
Well your last sentence pretty much sums it up. In a girlfriend’s eyes it’s your way of saying that they aren’t good enough for you. You’re sort of downing their self esteem.
I guess it’s not only girls that get upset because my boyfriend nearly got a heart attack when he saw me watching porn but then i encouraged him to watch it with me.
Every thing was perfect until he found my vibrator…
“you are cheating on me, how can you do this to me”
“Relax man” i said we can use it together”
What’s the big deal?
So eish, i don’t know why it’s such an epic issue!
The thing is that you’re just seeing things from a man’s perspective (i.e. we have urges and all) and probably never tried seeing things from a woman’s perspective. The guys watching porn is bound to make their girlfriends jealous and feel inadequate. I mean how would you feel if your girlfriend masturbated to all those men in porn movies who have penises twice or thrice the size of yours? I’m sure you wouldn’t enjoy that, would you? Wouldn’t you feel like she wants to be with one of those guys and not you? Men or women, the feelings of jealousy, inadequacy are present among all of us, no matter who we are and guys watching porn only gives a fillip to those feelings in women. You say, guys don’t compare porngirls with their girlfriends but you know what, the comparison is always on unconsciously, if not consciously. Some day, a guy is bound to think about what if his girlfriend had bigger breasts or buttocks like those of porngirls or what if his girlfriend did some of the things that those porngirls do. In case of the example that I gave, if a guy’s girlfriend masturbated everyday to guys with big penises then some day, she is going to think about what if her boyfriend had bigger penis. So the comparison thing is inevitable and it is bound to affect the relationship to some extent or another and I don’t think many girls would like to be compared to those porngirls, they want themselves to be the most attractive girl for their boyfriends. Porn also makes women seem like objects of pleasure for men and that’s what bothers a lot of girls. They want their men to see women as persons and not as sex toys. Watching porn is definitely NOT cheating but I think we should be ready to give up certain things, if it makes our loved ones feel any better.
But still, if you wish, may be you can try and make videos of yourself and your girlfriend as some of the girls mentioned here and watch them later on. Or just find a girl who is ok with you watching porn and there are girls like that out there which is pretty evident through some of the answers here.
im not actually that bothered but some women dont like it because the porn stars are sometimes prettier than them and they are sometimes skinnier. not all girls are like that
All girl’s get paranoid and angry when they find out their boyfriend’s/husband’s watch porn. My husband said to me he never watches porn until i found out that he had signed his self up for a porn site on our internet. I was very suspicious and mad about this but then again i just jumped to conclusion about him, i confronted him about it and he said whats the big deal. I said because you have me why would you want to look at that, he said its just fantasies and when ur at work for 5weeks what am i meant to do when i miss you and want you. But im fine with it now as i know it’s for his general things when im at work, but every girl must understand it’s not for cheating or anything like that. They only use that service for when we are not around or if us girl’s are working away for a few weeks, or we don’t see them day to day. But it’s fine you use new experience and you learn and try new things with your boyfriend’s/husband’s just like i do with my husband.