Fiance and I having Ruff time… please help *Detailed*?
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Alright, so this is going to be a little long but please bare with me….
My boyfriend and I have been dating for over 5 yrs, and we have are typical relationship arguments, but we always work through them. But when he and I were only together like a month, he cheated on me with my friend, and I ended up forgiving him I mean we were only 15 and 17 and we were going through hard times with our families at the time…. so since there we have no problems, but lately I have caught him lying to me twice… (Back in time to catch you up) almost a year ago we decided we wanted to have a baby we were financially stable, happy in love yada yada yada! needless to say that has been put on hold because we are having issues…. so anyways Monday night at like 2 am I wasn’t fully asleep and I felt him get out of the bed and go to the living room so I waited a sec thinking he was going to the restroom, and about 3 mins later I got up and snuck into the living room… where he was watching some video on his computer I wasn’t sure what it was but he heard me and clicked out of it extremely quick. So like anyone I said what are you doing? He was like oh e-mailing one of my teachers I forgot too. I said at 2 in the freaking morning!!!??? He said yes I forgot… I said then why did you click out of it so quick he said oh I didn’t I was changing pages!!! ok bull shit he clearly x-ed out of it… so I got pissed and finally he came in to the bedroom and said I’m sorry I lied I was just embarrassed I have been looking up stuff on conceiving a child and what to do when it happens, I don’t know because I haven’t ever had anyone in my fam pregnant. so I gave him a chance to explain and he actually sounded like he was telling the truth and he said it was because he wanted to be there and be able to fix it when I was sick or sore or got made for no reason he wanted to know what to do but he did not want me to know he learned from the comp. he wanted me to think he was sweet and not just doing it because he read about it. So I was still skeptical but let it go…..
Then last night I was on my computer and he was in the restroom “poopn” and I heard whispering after I heard the fan go on. So I was like what the hell… I went and listened and I couldn’t hear much but I distinctly heard the words “oh baby” and “I can’t”. when I heard the oh baby I thought well maybe he is jerking off which whatever he has the right to do that, but then when I heard I can’t I thought is he on the phone with some other girl??? So when I heard the toilet flush I rushed back to my computer and waited for him to come out…. I said what where you whispering about??? He said huh like he had no clue what I was talking about so I asked again he said I wasn’t… I was listening to music on my phone… bull shit you were whispering… so once again I got pissed because he lied to me again twice in one week, which made me think wow what else has he lied to me about and what is he hiding. So later on he was like ok I’ll tell you what I was doing but please do not laugh its embarrassing so I listened and got a bull shit answer…. (Again back in time, he is a cage fighter) so he said he was pretending role-playing he was in a match against Uriah Faber. I said BULL SH*T… he was like I swear honey…. fine don’t believe me… I said then why the hell did you say “oh baby” and I can’t???? He said I never said oh baby and I do not know why I said I can’t…. so I am still mad about that…
What should I do?
Is he lying to me?
Is he hiding stuff from me?
How do I find out?
I already looked on his comp and found nothing but a naked girl e-mail my dad sent him but she was nasty so I just deleted it.
he cheated once not twice, and we arent getting married quiet yet its more of a long term engagement. and the reason i believe the baby thing is on his history i found lots of baby sites and lots of articles saved about concieving and what to do when your girl is preggo.
also we are now 21 and 23, and if i find out he is cheating on me or hiding something equal wrong and big i will dump his ass, which will suck for him more than me half the shit we own is mine. everything we own is mine but his car the coach the tv and his comp. so ha ha lol
also, when he “cheated” on me before we did break it off for about a month, and he didnt have sex with her but he did makeout and put his hands all over her which i know is equally wrong
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Men are such jerks. It sounds like he might be cheating on you if you want my honest opinion. He was probably either emailing someone at 2am in the morning or watching porn. I don’t believe for a second that he was looking up trying to conceive a baby. I know it is hard, but I would dump his lying ass soon!
It seems there is a lack of trust. Maybe it best if you still want to be with him you lengthen your engagement until you are able to trust. But if you feel it is impossible then maybe it is best you re-think your relationship.
mine is doing the same thing.
well similar
we broke up for like 5 months last year and he took this girl to the park on one date.
we went to a party saturday and saw her there and when she left he went to his car to get his phone
i asked him why he needed it and he said he just wanted it.
we went home and he was drunk and i looked on his phone
no shadiness
then i looked at his email and found disgusting pictures of girls showing their asses in mirror pictures
i grilled him about it until he finally said they were from some lesbian and the girls worked at his work.
apparently the lesbian sent them to her.
BULLSH**
i didnt believe it
hes lied before.
in the morning i still had his phone and that b**** from the party texted him and guess what…
he saved her number under the name of Paul
i cant believe he would do this to us.
to me
to his family
our daughter.
idk what to do
i understand what youre feeling right now
good luck
:/
I think you should not marry him and plus you are too young to be marrying. see girl you shouldn’t marry this guy b4 marrying hes already cheatting on you Twice. and plus Do you have dreams? if you married him you have to give up all your dreams and goals ,how suck is that. And plus i think hes probably watching porn. I totally think hes not the right guy for you. I hope you concern and think about what he might do after marriage, there is too many unhappy marriages so im concern that you might end up with an unhappy marriage just like other people think seriously. And plus you shouldda enjoy life don’t make wild decisions!
oh my gosh. there are so many red flags and your still asking what to do? seems like your gonna marry him regardless. i bet even if you catch him in your bed with someone else he’ll come up with “i’m practicing take down moves and i needed a partner” youll say BULLSH then marry him anyway
Honey he is lying to you and I have been with my husband since I was 15 too and let me tell you everything your saying I have been through. If he lies about little things he will lie about big things. I promise you. You need to start doing your detective work and check everything he does phone records and all. You know in your heart what he is doing now you just have to catch him. Before you catch him you need to be prepared for what you are going to find. You need to know what you are going to do. If he is cheating are you going to leave him, forgive him? You need to do some sole searching and really think what YOU want out of life.
As far as the computer stuff chances are he is emailing someone maybe or looking at porn. I would just tell him your sick of his lying and you will be on him like NO TOMORROW til you find the truth.
Get out of this if you ASAP or your going to be one sorry person later on in life and he is going to keep cheating on you and you already gave him the okay by forgiving with your friend that’s a big mistake ever. You should have made him suffer for his sin, then give some time to forgive him now he has no respect for you. Sorry! Sweetie. I know it’s not what you want to hear but its truth.
Hi Tink, given you and I got no reason to proof anything,
I think you should be smart by now.
To settle this , you’ll have to be one notch ahead.
First, don’t suspect him anymore, let your life grow with him naturally, and don’t bring yourself to let him alerting himself to safety, this you’ll have to go on pretending for awhile.
Very soon, he’ll let his guard down,
meaning, you’ll get the proof obviously someday,
what you need is, your sensitivity, pay close attention to
everything, and make sure when you ”check”, he’ll not
be around, and if he’s up to something, I guaranteed,
he’ll never get away with it, cuz, you’re sure to get some
real proof, but be prepare for the disappointment that you’ll get, and plan out everything patiently, for if you’re
getting angry, all this hard work and your future will be ruin, and you don’t want that, so just be prepare.